A Sephardic Jewish Wedding, London, 1913

[The following letter was written by my father to his mother on February 26, 1913. I feel it is of some historical interest, and reproduce it here. It is on a business sheet of paper, headed ... HERRING, CORRE & Co., 38 Walbrook, London, E.C. TYPEWRITERS ALL MAKES. Brief explanations are in square brackets, longer ones are in a separate file. I cannot identify all the persons mentioned. Thanks to my sister, Alma Selwyne, who has the original.]

Dearest Mother & Uncle,
And so it is all over. Sunday, February 23rd has come and gone and Alf [my father's older brother] is a settled married man. The excitement which a wedding always creates has not yet abated. Above all things it makes conversation, especially for the girls. They can talk to their hearts content about the dresses and how the Chosan & the Cholla [bridegroom and bride] (I do not know if I have spelt these correctly) looked. And they did look splendid too. The Shool [synagogue] at Bevis Marks was well filled with relatives and friends. Doctor Gaster performed the Ceremony assisted by the Reverends Roco & Conquy [synagogue cantors.] The Chopah [wedding] was timed for 1 o'clock, but the carriages were about an hour late. Dr Gaster gave a nice little speech. He said that he had watched Alf grow up from a child, and it was with the greatest of pleasure that he was present to marry them. He was at Ramsgate on the Saturday and travelled down to London specially. Don't you think it good of him. It only goes to show that he must have been interested and thought a lot of Alf. Everybody present at the Shool was very much impressed. Mr & Mrs Allen said that they had never witnessed such a quaint ceremony and were awfully pleased. (you know the Allens I am referring to? from Baker St.). Bill Tunkin also came to the Shool. From the Synagogue we drove to the Devonshire Hall for the Bridal Breakfast. After this refreshment we sat for a photograph. First the Wedding Group, then Alf & Rene, [the bride] then little Teddy in his silk page boy suit and lastly myself. I have not yet seen the proofs but just as soon as they are finished they will be posted on to you. It was a picked day. Absolutely the fin[e]st we have had this season. The sun shone all day long, just as if he came out specially to smile upon the happy couple. Dinner was served about 7. 30. p.m. Mr Roco & Mr Conquy were present. They both made speeches and spoke in glowing words of Alf and I know it would have been a proud Mother to hear them if you were only there. We received your welcome cable right in the midst of the dinner. Also one from Hattie's father and one of Rene's aunts in New York. There were a good many telegrams too. These were all read out to the assembled company by Mr Jacobs. Alf made a nice little speech. He told the company how much he regretted that you & Uncle were not present on such an auspicious occasion. He also thanked Mrs Goodman for the kind way in which she had looked after him during his stay with her. (I believe she absolutely blushed with pleasure when he mentioned this) and I am sure she will never finish talking about it. Mr Conquy recited grace and then the Eveng people began to troop in. We had a very nice dance and the assembly broke up about 3. 30, a.m. We missed you very much and I feel positive Annie Kirsh was thinking of you the whole time. I could see it in her face. I must finish now with Fondest Love and all I can say in conclusion is, may their lives be as happy and as bright and prosperous as the sunny day on which they were married.

Your loving son,
Jack

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